@TDeisine Be used for every month.
I sha have enough to send home, take care of myself and kids and contribute the rest for family expenses.
If you're not financially stable before marriage as a woman, you're setting yourself up for suffering and financial abuse.
@TDeisine One time, I packed my bags that I was moving to pH to look for a job.
I sha endured, had my second baby, weaned her at 9 months and managed to get a sales job that pays over 350k monthly.
Same person who kicked against the idea of getting a job now budgets what my salary would