Hoovering is when narcissists try to lovebomb discarded supply and “win” them back. Narcissists do this for many reasons but it’s often because they have no intention of permanently discarding supply. They are manipulative and will sacrifice and swap people around like pawns.
One thing not often talked about is what people lose when escaping a narcissist. Some lose family, friends, even their own kids. Others lose sentimental items. Some lose everything.
What did you give up to gain freedom?
Introverts are not quiet, they observe. Scanning your expression. Measuring your movements. Mapping your tone. Listening to the meaning behind the meaning of your words. They're not quiet, they're psychoanalysing the shit out of you.
Narcissists will blatantly lie about what you’ve said and done in order to misrepresent you to others. Then when it’s time for them to play the victim they will have effectively undermined your ability to expose them by smearing your credibility and character.
Don't ask introverts "don't you get bored alone?". Bruh, the contents of their mind can take you to the moon and back twice. They've got thoughts, insights, and mind-boggling ideas spinning 24/7. The only thing that can bore them is your dumb conversation.
Narcissistic abuse is a pattern of abusive behavior, including emotional and psychological manipulation, used by individuals with narcissistic tendencies or narcissistic personality disorder. Learn the signs. https://t.co/POyB14WUgS
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