The less you take yourself seriously the luckier you get. That is just how it works. Drop the pride, kill the fear of embarrassment and start putting yourself in rooms and situations that will grow you whether you feel like it or not. Nobody is watching as closely as you think. Nobody is keeping score of your awkward moments. You are going to live, die and be remembered by maybe two generations if you were lucky enough to have people who loved you. That is it. So what exactly are you protecting your reputation for? Go be embarrassing. Go take the risk. It is so much more fun on the other side.
6 month plan for "the great lock in"
- month 1
clean your space, your mind, your body, deep clean your room, bathroom, closet. detox your socials, stop consuming chaos, start journaling.
who do you want to become. what habits does he have? how does he spend this morning? his money: his time?
- month 2
set a strict daily routine, wake times, meal times, phone limits, movement.
pick 3 non negotiables to do every day. start slow. build consistency, not intensity, this is th month you start showing up fo yourself even when it inconvenient.
- month 3
polish your appearance, not for others, for your confidence.
create a signature everyday look: hair, fragance, outfits. upgrade hygiene and grooming. research. your face shape, colour session and builds simple yet simple skin routine.
- month 4
read 2 books this month-choose ones that sharpen your mind study masculine communication and etiquette.
take breaks from social media become more observant. speak slower, listen more than you talk maturity is magnetic.
- month 5
build your value.
start a passion project or side income. learn a high value skill. organise your finances. open savings and track expenses.
start documenting the process. people love watching women who are building something
- month 6
become him.
defund everything you have built. remov what didn't serve you. double down on what you did.
you've planted the seeds now become the man who protects his peace, nurtures his mind, and moes with intention soft but focused calm but strategic.
imagine who you could become by the end of the year if you stayed consistent for just 6 months.
small actions.
every single day.
no excuses.
Xavi: "Saya mengatakannya secara terbuka, saya ingin melatih tim nasional! Itu akan cocok untuk saya... klub tidak memberi saya banyak waktu bersama keluarga. Saya termotivasi untuk melatih di Piala Dunia, EURO, AFCON, atau Piala Asia." (@RNEdeportes)
Xavi Cocok Nglatih Timnas Mana?
PRETENDING DRAINS YOU
Everyone’s fake. Nobody shows their real faces. Live authentically. Don’t try to fit in. Put yourself first. They become powerless against you. Jealous of your bravery. Play along when you need to. Choose originality over nonsense.
You’re not antisocial - you just prefer to live truly in the world full of masks.
Introverts don’t need getting energy from other people, they have it from within their own interests.
When others are always in the company of many people, it means that they constantly borrow energy from each other, because they don’t have it on their own.
For them pretending becomes who they are. They don’t have their internal monologue anymore, only listening to the opinions of others in their group and other social settings.
While those who consider themselves introverts only prioritize conversations where they don’t need to fake their smile, no need for gossip and talking about nothing.
Pretending is a signal that a person cannot allow themselves to live the way they want, because their priority is other fake people, but never themselves.
YOU NEED TO FIND YOUR PURPOSE
Don’t just waste air. Live for something. Create meaning. Build things. Explore the world. Pursue your goals. Focus on your interests. Learn to enjoy life. Stop being gray. Eliminate despair. Dream big. The adventure is calling. Take control of your destiny. Find answers everywhere. You’re here for a reason.
A life without purpose is empty and miserable because your energy remains stagnant instead of being directed toward something exciting.
Strive. Enjoy. Don’t overcomplicate it.
This interaction between Haaland and Ibrahimović is funny and wholesome.
Didn’t think they’d click like this.
The way humble Haaland is with him, the respect he shows him throughout the whole conversation. Wow.
gatau kenapa aku tuh suka bgt sama kecantikan artis zaman dulu, kaya natural bgt gitu, make up nya pun sederhana tetapi tetep memancarkan kecantikan.
contohnya di video ini, kalo ga salah pas pemilihan model Lux. Ada Cut Keke, Bella Saphira, Dian Nitami, Vonny Cornelia, Wanda Hamidah. lupa pemenangnya siapa.
bahkan mereka sampai sekarang cantiknya ga luntur dan awet muda.