ak keinget that one substack yg bilang if there's an opposite of suicide is when a person abruptly decides to start living or smth like that. cakep. harapan hidup ak setelah mendonlot substack 📈
i am such a bad perfectionist i keep deleting my boards bcs i just dont like the way they look regardless of how old the collection is. but i could never delete this board bcs it has everything i need when the thought gets too loud..
demnn maybe this is one of the other reasons gw kek kesamber daftar pre-marriage class. I HAVE TO BE COOL so I'd get an EQUALLY COOL husband yang nanti bisa temenin ak kemana² without being rese fawkk
doain ak bisa di acc s2 ke luar.. soalnya kmrn cm di acc sampe aus/sg/my kayak i know i can do much more than that. i'm not saying those are bad choices but i, too, deserve to go the the other side of the world. i want to live this life. if you look closely to the screenshot,
sampe segede ini keknya semua keputusan besar di hidupku masih dipilihkan mereka semua. tp akhir² ini ak mulai lebih berani say no and negotiate alhamdulillah. dan belajar mencari jalan memutar yg lebih beragam so that it'll satisfy both parties involved (me & them)
my dad leaves me on read. thats how he deals with 'me going away' topic. every time. every time. nanti klo bener² udh mentok bgt mau gamau i have to pull that one alternative he agreed on. nikah dulu bjir. UGH
one thing abt my parents.. so that you'd know theyre not perfect either. super strict abt me doing things outside of my comfort zone. ak rasa kenapa ak selalu takut coba hal baru karena DARI KECIL ak banyak sekali dilarang²nya. dan kek gtnya ke ak doang, ke adek²ku engga..
one of the many reasons i signed up for pre-marriage class. to learn how to parent. so that I'll know how to regulate between loving my child sm i dont want them to hurt and loving my child sm i learn how to let them go <3
“sex before marriage can lead to mental health issues, unhealthy emotional attachment, regret, STIs, unplanned pregnancy, and unstable relationships, belum lagi kita bahas keamanan perempuan dan perlindungannya di mata hukum, especially dalam case berpisah”
so true. facts. yas queen. he cooked. finally someone said it.
“zina adalah dosa besar dan perbuatan keji yang merusak kehormatan, nasab dan kesucian jiwa. menikah adalah cara terbaik dan melindungi berbagai pihak dalam hubungan yang dibangun dengan komitmen”
ih kolot. misoginis. patriarki. religious trauma. control women’s bodies. this is why people leave religion.
bfr😭😭😭😭😭😭
A sixth-grade student from Boyolali named Ibrahim has earned recognition from NASA after discovering a bug in one of its public domains.
He learned cybersecurity on his own.
(https://t.co/rQkRb5kyJY)