4. An extremely low EQ, which feeds off into unintellectual and tangential social interactions which make you wonder if there is something wrong. My narc ex talked once about my beloved maternal granny as if she had already passed away, talking about the stages of mourning βΉοΈ
3. An immense obsession with appearance. The narc spends an immense amount of effort, if not time or money, on the one source from which he or she can draw supply, such as praise or adulation from others, through physical looks. It could be the face or body, being used as bait.