talking to me in front of other people when you know i donโt mess with you is one of the oldest manipulation tactics in the book. it puts me in a position where if iโm polite, you get access to me, and if iโm not, i look like the difficult one.
Thereโs nothing wrong with hopping on a trend but I feel like thereโs people who make following trends their entire personality and I donโt like being around them