A reminder from Atomic Habits:
New goals don't deliver new results. New lifestyles do. And a lifestyle is a process, not an outcome. For this reason, all of your energy should go into building better habits, not chasing better results.
unlearn shame. all forms of shame: unemployment, illness, vulnerability, longing, desire, errors, failures. you do not need to feel ashamed of what you are experiencing or living. freedom and shame cannot coexist.
Abis baca (lupa dimana) kalo terlalu mengaitkan value diri sama hal konkrit (kayak hobi, pekerjaan, peran) itu membuat sense of self jadi lemah.
Dianjurkan untuk mengaitkan personality sama value yang lebih abstrak dan kuat (kayak integritas, keterbukaan, kejujuran).
Pernah ngobrol sama mas-mas surf coach di Bali... auranya sangat bahagia, tanpa beban, dia kayak sangat sangat menyukai pekerjaannya... I think he's living his best life.
*It's not about money
i actually think "surface level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride or die. some friends are for the gym. some are for going out. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. those deep convos and connections are for the 2-3 people closest to you
Minggu lalu interview untuk role kedua, terus ditanya:
“Prefer company yang fast-paced tapi volatile atau slow-paced tapi sustain?”
Jawabannya too obvious gasi 🙏🏼
i'm in love with this quote:
"if you're persistent, you'll get it. if you're consistent, you'll keep it. and if you're grateful, you'll attract more of it."
craziest thing just happened today, abis ajuin resign karena dapet offer dari company competitor dan ……
langsung disuruh balikin laptop + one-week notice
“You really have to work so hard. It’s so hard. And I think that’s misunderstood.”
Eileen Gu, the 22-year-old Stanford student, runway model, and only action-sport athlete to win three medals apiece at two Olympic Games (Beijing 2022, Milano Cortina 2026) has long been a subject of fascination. At Cannes Lions, she opens up about what people don't understand about being "the best" at their craft.
A girl just said she tried to get rejected 1000 times in 2025 and ended up being cast in plays, winning pageants, securing hella paid brand deals, and appearing in commercials.This is your sign to chase rejection to the point of "accidental" success. You'll be surprised.
MOVE BEFORE YOU BELIEVE
Stop waiting to feel ready. Move first. Wake up. Shower. Clean your room. Train your body. Speak slower. Look people in the eye. Finish the task. Keep the promise. Walk like you’re not ashamed to be seen. Stop asking your mood for permission. Stop explaining your potential to yourself. Give yourself proof. Give your doubt less evidence.
Call it delusion if you want.
Most confidence is just behavior repeated until belief catches up.