i’m not fond of if ppl thinking i’m gonna miss an event/something i’m looking forward to, because a former fling/lover/partner will also be present. i’m supposed to go my entire life avoiding ppl that were a part of my past? i get boundaries and all but what sort of life is that.
friendships only last when people choose to see you as a person that makes mistakes and help you learn from them not if they decide you are inherently evil just because of some human errors or shortcomings
i have a friend who treats me so well that she doesn’t even know that she’s established a standard for how i let everyone else treat me, and i think that’s beautiful