I don’t talk to you because of status or favors.
I’m usually there for the fun of seeing you win and when you win I’ll probably win too.
But one thing I’ll NEVER do is be your friend on the phone or to your face and talk sh*t about you behind your back.
Nor will I like or engage in posts where OTHER people are talking sh*t about you which is just as bad.
It’s very common and I want you to know something — just because you’re not the one making the comment, the post, etc doesn’t mean you’re not a snake.
It’s easy to boast about relationships > assets online, then drop someone as soon as they fall out of favor.
Easy to say “I care about people” then you hate on the people you say you care about when they’re not lookin.
If we are friends, I will never talk about you unless I’m sneaking in compliments. And I’ll never engage with content that doesn’t make you look good.
Most of the internet marketing cowards running around the internet are good at one thing: sucking up in person and throwing shade in private.
And before you ask, no nothing happened. But if it did I would tag them.
It’s crazy what happens when you go through seasons that test you — all the sudden you’re not afraid of a little challenge.
This is for all the amateurs who think the game can be won through the back alleyways of chasing status over people.
The problem is sometimes those people you used end up becoming significant and they rarely forget your name.
Not worth it.
IN favor or out of favor people deserve the same version of you whether you’re right in front of them or behind their back.
Plus you’ll sleep better 🙌
If you're truly forging your own path, you'll be a late bloomer
Takes tons of extra time to experiment, decondition, teach yourself things, etc
Nearly 100% of biz guys you see stacking cash before turning 23 are following someone else's path & doing it very well
I'm not saying this to knock them, this is just a observation. They're executors not innovators.
They'll follow a proven agency model, ecom model, sales model, etc emulating someone else to the T.
Will do the same thing with their dating life - emulate someone else to the T. Observing a working model of attractiveness then copy & paste that character and emulate it.
Same thing with their fitness routine - emulate someone else to the T
It is nearly impossible to stack enough life experience to know yourself & curate your own path at the age of 22. Nearly every young guy who is doing well for themselves at this age is just executing & emulating a copy paste model and doing it very well.
@pearlythingz What kind kind of stereotypical judicial statement is this? I don't disagree nor agree with this because it varies diffirently. Some are into it and some are not!
What if I said "women don't generally like ice
cream"???
Takes your energy:
- news
- porn
- worrying
- laziness
- overeating
- dehydration
- drama
- poor people
- lying
- envy
Gives you energy:
- making money
- good friends
- 3 liters of water
- sunlight
- productivity
- good sex
- achievement
- being honest
The mask always falls off over time.
If you're not who you claim to be, all will be revealed in time.
It's this reason that means some dudes can't hold a girl for longer than a few months.
It's this reason that frauds and liars always come to light.
You have to EARN the right to talk the talk.
You earn it by going through endless fires, learning who you truly are, building yourself up over time.
Don't pretend, do the work.