@_oluwaseun9 I know this is intended to be a joke but many of our Parents went through hell in their marriage during their youth age. Some unfortunately died in silent and pain and some started enjoying or having peace of mind when they've come of age and had no other choice than to RELAX.
You can't win nothing outside discipline!
Let Christ Be Your Backing.
There is easiest way in life but too foolish to follow.
If you have not being foolish in following Christ you haven't obeyed his' leading!