@gaydevito Yesss!! Do it!! It's worth it! If you can, try to invest in a good pump! I pumped with a goddamn nipple pump for so long until i invested in a good pump😭
Doms, just because your submissive wants to show you how far she'll go for you doesn't mean you should always let her.
know the difference between her limits and her devotion. they aren't the same, and confusing the two is how good Doms make careless choices. there may come a point where her desire to prove herself outweighs her concern for her own wellbeing.
you're not just responsible for what she consents to. you're responsible for what you choose to do with that consent.
You fake doms don't actually practice safe BDSM, you make actual doms and the entire BDSM scene look bad. You have got to practice safety, always! Get help from mentors, be open to advice and criticism, or get the fuck out the space. This is not your excuse to abuse women or whoever in the bedroom. Fuck outta here.
If you don't practice safe BDSM as a dom, i don't trust you at all. Nobody should. You deserve to be removed from the BDSM space. Safety, consent and the overall wellbeing of your sub should be your #1 priorities.
And even when they give consent, it is YOUR job as the dom to act accordingly and make it as safe as possible for your sub. OR decline the request if you think their wellbeing could be at risk.
watching BDSM get demonized in real time is irking me bad. you're not a "dom" you're not kinky you're WEIRD. safety is the main priority when it comes to these dynamics. it doesn't matter that she wanted you to do it, you as the dom need to refuse certain acts if they're not safe
please get tested regularly. lesbians please get tested too. specifically, get tested for:
- genital herpes & warts
- trichomoniasis
- chlamydia
- gonorrhea
- syphilis
- hepatitis b & c
remember hygiene too. wash your hands, use dental dams where necessary, and use condoms.
BDSM is NOT an excuse to beat on your partner being a dom that knows how to inflict pain without harming that person too intensely is important this is why they have whips ur arch isnt right ima whip u not close fist punch ur fucking spine so many ways tht could go wrong