in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you've created.
Girl to girl:
It's okay to be alone. It's okay to have a dry phone. It's okay to be celibate.
It's okay to be selfish. It's okay to have high Standards.
Your peace, your pace, your rules.💞
I don't want sex; I want the things that lead up to it. The slow kissing, then the passionate kissing, then the pulling closer, the neck kisses, the grabbing, biting, heavy breathing, grinding, the pause while you catch your breath, feeling each other.
Oops oh my
Then SEX.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.