girls will survive abuse, heartbreak, grief, and unspeakable tragedies and still move through the world with kindness and compassion, but one minor inconvenience in a man’s childhood and he spends the rest of his life terrorizing and poisoning everyone around him
My friend moved into her boyfriend's apartment & they invited me to dinner. She told me that they don't split bills 50/50, & her bf said, "She's not a burden, she's my future wife. I freely choose to be a part of her life, and it's my responsibility to give her a better life."🥹
soulmates aren’t just lovers, they’re friends too. your soulmates will naturally align with you. they understand you, appreciate you, support you, love you, heal with you and evolve with you. they make you feel beautiful in your own skin just for being YOU
i love that feeling when you talk stuff out with someone and you both become aware that neither of you were wrong. you just saw the scenario differently. talking really should be about seeing things from both perspectives, rather than the need to be right.
Vocal men are top tier. Imagine telling you how much they love you, point out your wrong doings in a nice tone, never invalidate your feelings, communicate with you when you hurt them, and telling how worthy you are and how much you mean to them.
I wish more ppl understood this: When someone says, “I’m not ready for a relationship,” but allows intimacy & attention they aren’t setting boundaries…They’re saying: “You don’t get commitment, but I still get your energy.” This is economy of emotional control. Let me explain…
Please Marry a man who is emotionally intelligent. A man who is nice & respectful even during arguments. A man who listens & understands. A man who fixes the issue as soon as you brought it to his attention. A man who can swallow his pride to save the relationship.