@NotJustLerato This is why I can’t engage in situationships, because wdym you’re paying rent for the other girl you’re sleeping with and haven’t even bought me a chocolate bar…. I just feel like that’s insane
@yvltopshoota Lmao depends tbh. Somebody that has strong boundaries can love you and still not be willing to tolerate a lot of stuff. It all depends on the person yk
Sometimes I will catch myself missing somebody and it’s like what exactly do I miss about them? The way they constantly gave me nothing, no effort , not even the bare minimum… then I just snap out of it because that’s ridiculous
cutting people off feels different now. it’s not anger, it’s grief. like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
one of the main reasons i’m so gentle with myself is cause i believe i’ve already experienced enough hardship in my life. i’ve already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.
@S0L4RFL4RE Literally like I kiss my ex friend but the truth is the idolization towards me slowly turned into envy and resentment and it’s like there’s really no repairing that, especially when you’re not the one carrying those emotions, if she’s not ready to unpack and be honest