i keep a playlist of all the songs @usurpernova recommends me because i’m super neurotic but by virtue of using apple music i can’t keep a shared playlist of the stuff i recommend xem so instead it’s just this super silly looking note i update and screenshot every few weeks
i keep a playlist of all the songs @usurpernova recommends me because i’m super neurotic but by virtue of using apple music i can’t keep a shared playlist of the stuff i recommend xem so instead it’s just this super silly looking note i update and screenshot every few weeks
alters who love spilling your dirty laundry. alters who love to be like “AND ANOTHER THING” just fucking dumping out your fuckin business to anyone who will listen
seeing so many people say this is rare or never happens & like i am right here. & i know other survivors of this specific assault. & choking is extremely normalized to an unreasonable & unsafe degree. do you rly think it's rare to be abusively pressured to conform to this "norm"
people are discoursing about this and if you think she is wrong you need to block me. i genuinely do not want you around me if you cannot see how this is a real, tangible issue or if you are more worried about the stigmatization of kink than the abuse hiding under it
Choking during sex is a different issue than anal or blow jobs. There is no safe way to engage in choking during sex and men are killing women & blaming it on a bdsm accident. Strangulation is a huge DV warning sign that very likely will result in murder.
i think that is spiritually ill behavior and it is really disgusting that people are more worried about how discussing this kind of abuse makes their community look bad than they are about how their poor community values aid and abet this kind of abuse