He conseguido un nuevo trabajo que pensé que no tendría posibilidades por el hecho de ser atención al cliente y no haberlo hecho nunca. Lo conté en casa y ni una sola persona me felicitó, supongo que voy a dejar de contar estás cosas porque a veces solo me desaniman
i want to marry into a family that actually feels like home. sunday dinners, birthday celebrations, holiday traditions, spontaneous movie nights, laughter around the table, games that get way too competitive, warm hugs at the door, and group chats that never stop lighting up.
my friend is 34 and has never had a serious relationship
not bc nobody wants her. bc she has a list. and the list is brutal
・if he talks over the waiter, done
・if he checks his ex’s instagram in front of her even once, done
・if he says “i’m not like other guys,” instantly done, no exceptions
・if he doesn’t text back within a day with no explanation later, done
・if he makes a joke about her body, even “jokingly,” done forever
・if he can’t tell her one specific thing he liked about the date, done
everyone tells her she’s too picky.
that she’s going to end up alone bc “no one’s perfect”
meanwhile i’ve watched 4 of my other friends get married to guys who showed every single one of these signs early
3 of them are divorced now.
1 is “fine” but you can tell she’s not
my picky friend is still single
but she’s never once been blindsided.
never had to find out the hard way who someone actually was
idk man. maybe being alone by choice beats being disappointed by accident
Creo que es más fácil pensar que me odias, que pensar que todavía puedas quererme, porque entonces eso me tendría confundida del porque de tus acciones y ya no quería vivir en incertidumbre
I finally figured out that true love isn't about the high, the butterflies, or the easy moments.
It's about choosing someone even when it's hard, when the spark fades, when life gets tough, when you're not feeling it, but you still show up. That's real love.
And if you walk away just because it gets hard, you'll never know how beautiful it could ve been when you chose to stay and build something stronger.
It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.