Adulting advice???? Always make time to travel, even if it’s not an expensive trip. Take time to unwind. Give yourself the chance to breathe. It’s crucial for your mental health. Visit the beach and don’t feel guilty for spending your hard earned money. You deserve to enjoy life.
We are overstimulated and we don't even notice. Netflix while eating. Reels in the bathroom. Music while cooking. Podcasts on walks. We consume by default, not by intention. You keep filling every gap, then wonder why you feel foggy and unmotivated.
Boredom and silence are the real growth drivers. They give you space to think and create. That's when solutions show up for problems that have been stuck for months. Leave some room.
I Told my Therapist:
“I feel safest when I do everything alone.” She didn't even ask why. She just said, "That's not independence. That's grief. And I swear. I felt something in me break open.
Because it is grief, isn't it? Grief for every time you asked for help and no one showed up. Grief for being the child who had to hold it all together while everyone else fell apart. Grief for realizing way too young, that no one was ever really coming to save you. You didn't choose to be strong. You had to be.
seth cohen and blair waldorf on screen together AND married in real life while he’s dating veronica mars on the show who’s also the voice of gossip girl you can’t make this crossover up
my mom once told me “unfortunately life doesn’t wait for you to be okay. you gotta get up everyday and keep pushing through” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.