I reallyyyyy cannot be with somebody who’s dismissive of my feelings ! I understand you may not agree, understand or that it may not even be of the same importance to you BUT… do NOT be dismissive of whatever it is I’m feeling ! That’s a HUGE pet peeve !
I like a man who miss me, wanna see me, blow my phone up about his day, and be obsessed with me in a GOOD WAY, If you nonchalant, inconsistent, or unromantic stay where u at