When a man is asking you out, he does most of the calling.
When you accept to be his girlfriend, he still does most of the calling.
After he fucks you, the calling will reduce and his response to your calls or messages will be slower or delayed.
It's now your turn to be doing the calling and chasing.
If you allow his drop in communication or attention frustrate you and you start to crash out, he will use it as an opportunity to break up with you, because he has gotten what he initially wanted - your toto.
No matter what a man tells you when he was chasing you, he is mostly after your toto.
It's how you behave after he has chopped your toto that may keep him.
Getting a man's attention is cheap.
It's his commitment that is expensive.
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Peller: Are you happy to marry me?
Jarvis: Yes I’m blessed
Peller: Are you sure ? Cos people are saying a lot of things about my age that I’m 21, I can’t write and all but if I tell people what am good at, they’ll be sh0kced
Jarvis: what’re you good at 👀?
@0x_DeeJay Just look at how people enabling cheating, bro cheating is cheating don’t give them shishi, if you ever forgive cheating you’re gone. The same way they sisters sided the mother is the same way they will also cheat on their husbands. Don’t give them shishi.
A father left his son more than $10 million.
He left his two daughters nothing.
Now they’re asking their brother to pay off their $300,000 in student loans.
Caller: “My father left everything to me… his house, his investments, his business. He didn’t give anything to my sisters.”
George Kamel: “He purposefully didn’t leave any money to your sisters?”
Caller: “Yes.”
George Kamel: “And now they’re resentful because they feel like they deserve a portion of this money.”
Caller: “It seems like it.”
Jade Warshaw: “Why did he cut them off?”
Caller: “My mother had an affair. My sisters sided with my mother because they liked the affair partner more. I sided with my father.”
George Kamel: “I think you’re going to be resentful if you give this money. I’d rather them be resentful towards you than you be resentful towards them.”
“There’s no easy answer here.”
“They’re going to hate you.”
"I laughed over the Ycee 'Olodo Uprising' topic, not because I found it funny, but because he was identifying something in his time. However, he was seeing the latter stage of something that started in my own generation when I was probably his age.
I spoke about weaponized ignorance for the first time in 1994 when I wrote a piece on it. He is identifying the same phenomenon. The 'Olodo Uprising' was fathered by weaponized ignorance."
— Dele Farotimi