i have gotten blocked more times than times you have approached girls.
you: -scared of one rejection -rehearsing the perfect line for 6 months -still haven't said a word
me: -blocked, ghosted, rejected weekly -202 dated girls in 2.5 years -numbers don't lie
rejection is just the entry fee.
your move.
I have to say, I'm on the chick's side.
I fucking hate all that mate-guarding.
Girls hate that shit too.
This is how girls end up cheating just out of spite, since they're already under suspicion all the time anyway, so what difference does it make?
in the beach club with my boy, espresso martini in my cup to stay hydrated
only thing i see in front of me is yachts and baby blue water
i'm not on that yacht type of financial level... yet
but i can see myself sitting on that yacht over there eating oysters and crab
my future self is already on that yacht and i'm waving to him
the present and future is one for me
everyone sees that luxury billionaire type of life and treats it as something alien
they can't envision themselves sitting on that yacht eating oysters, it's impossible for them because they genuinely don't believe they can achieve it
"just a dream"
the realization that the world is truly yours sets you free
scarface had a deep lesson integrated in it but guys didn't learn
everyone keeps thinking they need to be born rich to live "that" life
if they're not born rich, oh well then it's just over apparently
"maybe in the next life" right?
but... why not in this one?
this game is not hard, it is just a matter of your perceverence and hunger
elon musk was completely broke in 2008
now he's a trillionaire
who says you need to be born rich to live "that" life
we humans are created to create
you shape your own life in the form you want it to be, and it's really that simple
to do that you first have to go through the phase where nothing makes sense, the phase where you seem crazy
and yes, you are crazy when you choose this life
nobody around you believes what you believe, you are the black sheep
but isn't that beautiful?
crazy becomes your new normal
"normal" people don't register anymore, small minds.. small minds... small minds
life gets fun when you live on the edge but never fall off
so when you see those yachts, make sure you see yourself eating oysers on it too
soon the future will be the present and the present will be the past
you already have everything you want
lady just brought us some watermelon as i'm writing this
always tip the waiters, don't be stingy
34 degrees with a little breeze, i'm relaxed
stay on your path and everything will make sense eventually
the yachts and private jets are realistic
everything is realistic because everything is a part of reality
don't let anybody who doesn't know better tell you otherwise
oh yeah and remember..
it's a l4f3styl3 baby.
The girl you absolutely cannot take your eyes off of when you’re out is the one you need to go up to the most
If you cannot take your eyes off of her or feel a level of feral attraction, it’s there for a reason.
I can’t think of a time where that attraction wasn’t reciprocated.
Literally every time it’s gone amazing.
Trust your instincts there, there for a reason, and if your instincts are telling you to go up to a girl, listen to them.
That might just be your next girlfriend or wife.
My approach to dating is simple:
Be direct enough that she knows you want her.
Be dismissive enough that she knows it won’t last forever.
Be social enough that her FOMO starts to grow
the cia spent years trying to find a way to create a "sleeper"
mkultra. illegal experiment.
dosed people with acid without telling them.
hypnosis. electroshock. sensory deprivation. drugs that didn't even have names yet.
the goal was simple.
install a command in a human that they would carry out and never remember why they did it.
a "sleeper"
it worked. through trauma based mind control. it's covered in the extended "monarch" programming experiments. which i won't talk about. but you can look for yourself.
i'm not running torture on kids anytime soon. so it's not much use to me.
but what i find useful is manipulation you can use. to make money. to own attention and to manufacture loyalty and to find the "weak" points in people that give me a hidden advantage. in the business/selling/marketing world. but in general life too.
and if you think the same way…
then i'd give you a copy of kubark. the cias interrogation manual.
you can pull it up if you want. it's declassified.
or we could talk about the one "big" lesson it teaches.
you do not put anything into a man to make him do what you want.
instead, you arrange the room around him until the thing you want is the only "thing" left to grab. this weaponises their autonomy.
kubark. they would ask questions that make zero sense.
one leans in, flat, calm. "what colour was the engine when you stopped loving her?"
you open your mouth. the other cuts in, louder. "who told you the seventh was heavier than the rest?"
you answer one. he answers a question you never asked. then they're both talking at once.
random. double talk.
a question shaped like a real one that means nothing. the manual's own words: "seems straightforward but is essentially nonsensical." answer it or don't, the next one's just as illogical and has nothing to do with it. and the volume never matches the words. a whisper for the brutal one. a shout for the meaningless one. nothing lines up.
they say the victim may start laughing. finding it funny. but after a while they question what is going on.
in a white room. the questions don't make sense. an angry interrogator comes in. the victim is threatened.
the nonsensical questions put him in a regressed state. their mental age regresses.
so when "angry interrogator" comes in. it shocks them more than it would in their adult state.
in a regressed state it reminds them of a school teacher. father. etc.
when that ends…
the angry one gets up. another one sits.
this one is "warm"
"you okay? we put the other guy in the back"
"anyway where was we?"
the hostile one breaks him. the warm one brings the relief. and he doesn't bond to the kind words. he bonds to the relief. to the only person in the building who made it stop.
from there, the victim wants the nice one to stay. so what does he do? behaves.
regression -> intimidation -> relief
doesn't that sound familiar?
hook -> problem -> solve
intrigue -> hot -> cold
the cia figured it out
and that's the start.
but why does this even work?
surely someone being interrogated by the cia knows how to slip past these "tactics"
yeah. maybe if we was dealing with conscious beings.
but there is one underlying truth under every human on this planet is that nobody has free will.
we make unconscious decisions and unconscious decisions only.
after the decision is "done". we rationalise our unconscious decision which is driven by safety/fear/status seeking. we rationalise it with a conscious "intelligent" reasoning to preserve the illusion of control.
the ego always wants control.
so no matter what happens… what decisions you make…
…your brain says "i chose this"
that's it.
"i chose this"
then your brain comes up with a reason AFTER you chose.
been shown in neuromarketing studies. the brain chooses to buy or not before people buy. and they rationalise the buy after.
there is a conscious persona and an unconscious persona in people.
the conscious persona takes over when there is something to rationalise. perfect to know this and it shows how stupid people can be. and how easy they are to sell to.
you notice this in yourself when you learn this. and truly it's weird because you can't control it.
you sell to someone. you're speaking to their unconscious. only after they buy you make them the story of why they bought. and that makes them stay.
shown in neuroscience studies when your attention is fully "captured"… 80% of your brain belongs to the place where your attention is captured. modern hypnosis. easy game.
not many people think of making money this way. because you have to be deep in to even want to learn this.
either they aren't deep enough. or they don't know that making money is not simply "reps". that's conditioning from working normal jobs. it's a psychological process which involves slithering through different circuits in a buyers brain.
some things are landmines. some are jet boosts. dopamine. invoking that feeling in them of when you first pop a snus.
and the "psychology" of money goes way back. deeper than you think.
freud. the coked up father of psychology.
he had a nephew. bernays. the "founder" of using propoganda to make money.
took freuds founding and tailored them to making money.
not selling products on a shopfiy store. but more like mass belief shaping in order to change association to certain products to make them seem more "attractive". president of american tobacco hired him.
he made cigarettes "boom"
he found that linking selfish emotional desires to a product can make someone spend money "irrationally"
from there. the world of money changed.
now…
it's the economy of selfishness.
the world went from buying things for "need"
to buy things to appeal more to others.
sexually drive/status driven
but the real game is to know how to appeal to unconscious desires in a consciously acceptable way.
after all "express yourself through fashion" sounds more appealing than "dress like a whore"
stay busy.
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