After a certain age, you are no longer the product of your environment or how you were raised. It's a personal choice to live the way you do. At some point, blaming your past becomes a distraction from your future. Healing is your responsibility. Growth is your decision.
What men dont understand is... Nobody cooks for her. Nobody cleans for her. Nobody makes her meals. Nobody does her laundry. Nobody makes sure she's okay. Nobody caters to her period. A woman is always instantly looked as someone who needs to take care of everyone
i don't like dealing with people who make me feel like i'm losing my mind trying to get them to understand how i feel. I don't like having to keep shit bottled up inside. I don't like feeling like my feelings don't matter. I can't deal with anyone who makes me feel like that.
Men don't understand... being a "PROVIDER" isn't all about MONEY. It's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. Money is the icing, not the cake
people think intimacy is only found in kisses or touch. but it's also found in texts that say "i just got home," or "i'm so tired today," or "look at this random thing i saw." sharing daily life feels like intimacy because it means: i thought of you in the middle of my ordinary world, and i wanted you to know
Ngl after a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn't do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth... just basking in your toxicity huh?
no one talks about how hard it is to open up to someone about being sad for no reason. how hard it is to explain to your friends & family that you have a heavy feeling in your chest for no reason.