@ellenxoneill I've been hearing it a lot lately, and it's not even like I have an eating disorder or body image issues. But.... imagine that I did and someone says that???? Wack. Leave us alone we're actually healthy af, y'all just ain't used to that.
Someone at work that I don't even know told me "We need to put some weight on you, you look like you're dying on us" as well as "I hope you don't go home and stick your fingers down your throat" and it's got me real fucked up that they thought that was appropriate at all???