One day gents you must understand that women are reciprocators, not initiators. They step AFTER yโall step. You lead, they FOLLOW. Idk how else to explain this but itโs really SO simple.
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The easiest person to take for granted is usually the hardest to replace. Why?
Because they made loyalty look normal. Because they made consistency look normal. Because they made effort look normal
So normal that you start believing you can find that anywhere. That's why many people leave good partners NOT because they found better BUT because they assume that can be easily found
The person you get "bored" of is often the person you'll end up looking for in other people
If you have that person in your life, value them.
Men, its your responsibility to make SURE that your wife NEVER says these words:
- Hapana Chingwa
- Hapana muriwo wekubika
- Gas has run out
- I have no data
- My car has no fuel
- School Fee is due
- The Kids have no clothes
- Medical Aid is late
Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.
The day you become afraid to text your partner because you don't want to seem "too much" is the day you should question whether you're in an emotionally safe relationship.