Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥

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[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

Let them walk away. Let them act funny. Let them be inconsistent. The right ones will always stay. #LetThem

[VictoriaGoldLight @AquariusGate]

Are you familiar with the "Let Them" theory? I’ll tell you friends the more I grow the more I am okay with accepting the "Let Them" in my own life and relationships.
This is something that took me a very long time to learn. I used to tolerate a lot because I didn't want to lose people. But I learned the hard way if they were really my people they would never treat me like that. Don't make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you're being repeatedly disrespected.

Let them be upset.
Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you,
Let them ignore you.
Let them be "right."
Let them doubt you.
Let them not like you.
Let them not speak to you.
Let them run your name in the ground.
Let them make you out to be the villain.
Whatever it is that people want to say about you, let them!
Kindly step aside and LET THEM.

The hard truth is they know how much they are hurting you. And they just simply don't care. They did it knowing it could cause them to lose you. And they did it anyway. People that love you care about how they make you feel. The end. Let them go.

There will be people that would rather lose you than be honest about what they've done to you. Let them go.

The lack of respect was the closure. The lack of apology was the closure. The lack of care was the closure. The lack of acountability was the closure. The lack of honestly was the closure. Let them go.

Make the decision to no longer sit at tables where you might be the topic when you get up. Let them go.

You can still be kind. You can even still love them deeply. But do it from the distance they created in their words and actions. Access to you is a privilege they have proven they can’t be trusted with. Let them go.

You don’t need to tell your side of the story. God already knows. Let God fight the battle for you. Let them go.

It’s taken me a long time to get here. Sleepless nights, countless tears, managing a range of emotions filled with anger, disappointment, confusion and deep hurt. Lots of self reflection, self preservation, deep prayer and seeking wisdom from those much wiser than me.

If you are struggling with this, please know you are not alone. We will never understand why hurt people hurt people. But we can do the hard work to grow ourselves. Because healed people do in fact, heal people.

Don’t you dare let them steal your joy.
Don’t you dare let them steal your light.
Don’t you dare let them steal your peace.
You are in control of that.
Hold tight to what you can control and release your grip on what you can’t control.
Let them go.

[Lumen @LumenX_]

Soon...very soon.

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

Funny how some people leave your life, then come back like nothing happened 😅

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

🐾 Wagging tails, happy hearts 😍 today was truly PAW-some at Southwoods Mall! 💕 #WoofsAndWhiskers

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

@PLDT_Cares This outage has gone on far too long and is already affecting my work. “ASAP” isn’t a clear timeframe, i need a specific restoration ETA!

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

@PLDT_Cares Still no internet, no confirmed restoration time, and PLDT refuses to connect me to a supervisor. This outage is affecting my work 😒yet I even got a product offer while my service was down. Unacceptable. #PLDT #InternetOutage @PLDTHome @pldt

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

This movie gets me every time 😭✨ #EverAfter #HopelessRomantic

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

Some people try so hard to belong, they forget to just be real. Cringe, beshie 🙃

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

Funny how some people will justify anything when it benefits their circle 🤡

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

So proud of how fair things pretend to be. It’s giving ‘equal opportunity’… with fine print

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

@wickedmovie date with Mama 💚🩷 forever defying gravity together ✨ #WickedMovie #WickedMoviePH

[Wicked Movie @wickedmovie]

The original Elphaba and Glinda return back to Oz 💚🩷

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

Happy birthday Mickey and Minnie 🥰♥️ #MickeyMouseBirthday #MinnieMouse

[Drew Smith @ D23 @DrewDisneyDude]

96 years ago today, a character was born that captured our hearts. Happy birthday, Mickey Mouse. ❤️

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

Every time you allow something that goes against your principles or well-being, you open the door for it to happen again. Setting boundaries is not just a matter of firmness, but of self-respect!

[Valerie Jane dela Cruz ❥ @valerishhh]

What you decide to tolerate
more than once will inevitably become a repeated pattern. By not setting clear boundaries, you teach others-and yourself-that certain behaviors or situations are acceptable, even if they make you uncomfortable or harm you

[Words @wordstionary]

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[Daily Harry Potter @TheDailyHPotter]

When it gets a little too emotional 🥺