@ReallySnowey (i want to reiterate that i can see now why the transphobia discourse has been brought up as i had missed where she heavily implied she’s more lesbian for essentially liking only cis women)
while this is valid it is also totally ok for a lesbian to be attracted to a girl who has a dick and it doesn’t make them any less lesbian. some lesbian are repulsed by dicks, some aren’t. and that is ok!
Lesbians don’t have to like dick, even when attached to a girl. That doesn’t make them a terf. It doesn’t make them transphobic, it makes them a lesbian who doesn’t like dick. Stop with the transphobe allegations. Leave lesbians alone.
@ReallySnowey yeah, what makes me sad is no matter what lesbians lose in this situation. say they don’t mind dick if attached to a woman? cis and bigots will say she isn’t lesbian, say she is repulsed by dicks? some one will somehow say it’s transphobic when transgenderism wasn’t even mention-
“I don’t like penis” that’s cool and chill!
“I hate penis and that’s the most lesbian thing about me” …THAT’S the most lesbian thing about you? there’s nothing else? yeah I love sex I love pussy but that is certainly not the most lesbian thing about me.
@ReallySnowey https://t.co/zIQSpMj5aY
reading this .. i do think it is a very weird thing to say, it’s giving gold star lesbian vibes which in itself is gross. lesbians can like/be attracted to trans women and they are STILL lesbians )))):
there’s nothing wrong with not liking penises as a lesbian, having genital preferences is not transphobic. however my problem is her saying that it makes her more gay by being disgusted with them. which implies lesbians attracted to trans women are less gay. which isn’t true.
@ReallySnowey ofc if they started saying out right bigoted and transphobic things i’d understand. people can’t help what their body looks/appears like, so shaming them is a bit .. odd. idk this is all so messy lol
@ReallySnowey ed. it’s pretty sad, i’m honestly confused why it even developed into a transphobia debate when no such thing was mentioned as far as i understand. i think it’s totally ok to be repulsed by something no matter who it’s attached to.
Una vita passata a levare i tuoi peli dai miei vestiti, un momento per chiedere al medico di lasciarmene solo un batuffolo.
Buon ponte, Gigi mio. Sei stato il primo. Hai cambiato la traiettoria della mia vita e per sempre te ne sarò grato.