What white people get being in the Black friend group: food , culture, style, art, dance, community.
What Black people get being in the white friend group: drowned, death.......
Black people don't be the Black person in the white friend group
i actually think "surface level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride or die. some friends are for the gym. some are for going out. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. those deep convos and connections are for the 2-3 people closest to you
Every time something happens to Hannah on #TheTestaments, it's gut wrenching bcs you remember how happy June, Moira, and Luke were when they almost got her out