Why is it so hard for guys to treat their gfs how they deserve to be treated especially when they do everything possible for you and won’t give up on you even when you hurt them I just don’t get it!!! 💔
I was so excited to watch @BacheloretteABC I stopped watching it and since they announced it was going to be Taylor i was definitely going to watch it again. Looks like I’m going back to never watching the bachelor or bachelorette again! Absolutely so disappointing 🙄😡
Being a girl means knowing that if you want to leave at 12, you need to be ready by 11:30, get dressed by 11, start your makeup at 10, shower at 9, eat at 8, which means waking up at 7:30
Someone having an issue with something you do doesn’t mean they have an issue with YOU. And someone expressing their issue with you is an opportunity for openness, remedy and intimacy. Not an attack on you and not them trying to cut you off or abandon you. Someone expressing their issue with you is an act of love and a sign that they want to FIX the problems as someone who had an issue with you directly would prefer to remove you from their lives with no communication. Look at open communication and clarity and constructive criticism as an act of love rather than conflict.
you can’t force love.
a man who truly cares for you won’t need convincing to treat you right. he will notice when he has hurt you, take responsibility, and try to do better. he won’t wait for you to remind him of your worth—he’ll already know it. a man who values you will not risk losing you, so he will learn from his mistakes and work not to repeat them. you don’t have to teach him how to love, because his love will push him to grow. he will pay attention to your words, consider your feelings, and include you in his decisions. when you are hurting, he will show patience and gentleness. he will never make you feel like asking for effort is too much, because for him, giving effort is natural. at the end of the day, you cannot make someone love differently if they don’t want to. but when a man truly loves, he teaches himself how to love you the way you deserve.
If you lose interest in a person, please let them know. The coldness in your tone and texts, the emptiness in your hugs, the gaps in your conversations, unanswered calls. Those things hurt more than the truth because they feel like a slow death.
the hardest thing i've learned this year is that u can’t make someone communicate & work things out. u can't beg for someone to see that u are worth fighting for & i stand by that now.
your soulmate is someone who’s committed to working things out with you & doesn’t see breaking up as an option. they’re willing to have difficult conversations & are always devoted to finding solutions that make the both of you feel secure, reassured, & happy in your relationship