Vania

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Blessed beyond measure.

[Yuukimaru @YuukimaruRP]

What is causing the "gender wars"?

It's the unwillingness of women who got hurt to say "I got hurt by the tall pretty boys, that I chose for being tall and pretty, while rejecting average looking men with good character".

Women who got hurt say "I got hurt by men, men are bad for doing these things to me".
Then men who kept getting rejected see that and go ballistic.

In theory, women solve this problem and end the gender wars, by picking sexual partners better.

But realistically, that is never going to happen. The most realistic solution to the gender wars situation is - Men who got rejected organizing into a revolutionary movement, and backing a dictator who will heavily tax women for being unmarried or denying sex to the husband.

[Yuukimaru @YuukimaruRP]

A lot of women seem to think that women being unwilling to produce children, while men want them, gives power to women.

They are absolutely right. The less willing women on average are to produce children, the more power the women on average have.

However, they are wrong to assume that this is good for women.

With power comes responsibility. The more power you have, the more willing the dispossessed people will be to hold you responsible.

Just having power, with no intention to make lives better for those who don't, will make bad things happen to you. Just look up what happened to Hipparchus of Athens, Zhou Chunfu of Liaoning, Louis XVI of France, or Lai Junchen of Tang.

[Julia @RhodiumMaiden]

@FischerKing64 Datings apps are particularly bad for women because we cannot determine pheromones, social mannerisms, and dominance from online profiles, which for us are more important than looks. Choosing a partner just based on looks is bad for everyone but especially women.

[Building Great Marriages @dovidfeldman]

No one wins the Victim Olympics.

Most of my clients have seen other therapists for years and are still battling that out when they walk in the door. But this is one of my favorite parts of being a behavioralist: I don't care about who is right or wrong, or who is hurt the most.

Instead, it's all about what changes must we make in order to dig our marriage out of this hole we've created.

And for most, it starts with turning towards each other with a positive countenance. That one gesture alone can be the tipping point that separates a happy marriage from divorce.

If you are caught in the Victim Olympics, ask yourself: "What am I gaining from holding on to my suffering story? What could happen if I let it go?"

The answer to that may very well change your whole relationship!

[Jakob | Move or Die @moveorperish]

People underestimate how hard this is.

Great work by @Strong_Old_Men here.

I highly recommend following him.

[The Stanford Review @StanfordReview]

Stanford just used AI to race swap a student for their advertisements.

[Rivelino @alpharivelino]

The women with the healthiest emotional blueprints are usually in a relationship by the time they’re 25

And because they have healthy emotional blueprints, they usually stay in this committed relationship for decades or even for a lifetime

In other words, they’re off the market for good

[Rivelino @alpharivelino]

The question for you is:

Can you accept her as she is

or

Can you help her improve and get better (do you have the skills, commitment, and patience to do this)

[Trina Nuance || The Fractional Muse 🌿🌞🌊 @TrinaNuance]

please take this as social proof of my authority to tell you the latest news story, whatever it is, is a waste of your time energy & attention

[Jakob | Move or Die @moveorperish]

Expose your practice more.

Think you got skill?

Transfer it to a new scenario.

New rules, other players.

Fresh Game.

Then you will know the truth.

[Juniper the Dryad @adesertdryad]

@butterfaegarden and personalities have gotten more unpleasant (more introverted, more neurotic, less conscientious, more disagreeable) over time so everyone feels like they are getting a value negative partner (they kind of are)

[🦋Butterfriend🦋 @butterfaegarden]

I’m convinced they all fantasize about the type of person they want to meet and when they get to the dating pool they’re all like “ugh who are these boring plain ppl”

[The McMullan @TheMcMullan]

Men are physical super predators
Women are social super predators

The left is the political feminine…

So they do social construction and psychological manipulation through language.

[Juniper @__JUUNii__]

He claims to be a Christian and a follower of Christ, yet openly supports transhumanism and idolizes figures like Elon Musk, hoping to work with Neuralink to implant brain chips. His ambitions clearly align more with the goals of technocracy than anything else.

[Juniper @__JUUNii__]

A lot of coping in this thread:

"They secretly starve themsleves"
"They actually wish they could gain weight."

No and no. These fat people are jealous that some of us don't have to think about our diet to not overreat. Whereas they have to make a conscious effort to stop.

[Juniper @__JUUNii__]

Feminists criticize video games for making men docile, yet advocate for limiting men's natural drives like aggression and dominance and get upset when men compete for positions they feel entitled to. While she’s not wrong, maybe their energy should target the feminist government

[Kasumi @KasumiKriss]

As a 33 year old, here are the best skincare options I recommened:

- Quit processed foods
- Quit foods high in artificial sugars
- Quit alcohol and smoking
- Do daily facial fascia massages
- Do daily body fascia massages
- Do daily scalp massages
- Avoid skincare products containing toxic or harsh chemical ingredients
- Get daily sunlight on your entire body
- Prioritize getting sunlight on your skin at sunrise and sunset
- Sweat several times a week
- Avoid toxic people
- Have skin-to-skin contact with someone you love
- Eat higher amounts of dietary animal fats, preferably raw
- Hydrate with spring water, fresh fruit juice, and raw milk
- Avoid artificial light and spending all your time indoors
- Touch grass and spend most of your time outside

[Vania @vaniasaur]

@jerr_rrej I hope this is true in the context of marriage. Need to gather more consensus on this.

[Ginger @HandyGingerGal]

This is literally the only way I know

[Sysy | Building Wholesome Works @FeminaStudiosa]

If I'd made a list for my the man I was looking for at 22 I would have never selected for my husband.

So glad we got together before social media.