It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.
y’all can keep the nonchalant ones i want mine exactly like this...clingy affectionate chalant obsessed and never afraid to love me out loud in private and in public
Marriage is pure luck. I've seen girls with boyfriends who were crazy about them they still left and ended up with amazing husbands. And the innocent ones often end up with guys who don't give a shit about them. Life's just unfair. 😭
I highly recommend having a clingy and lovey dovey partner. Life is too short to be with someone who acts like it’s painful to show that you love someone.
I finally figured out that true love isn't about the high, the butterflies, or the easy moments.
It's about choosing someone even when it's hard, when the spark fades, when life gets tough, when you're not feeling it, but you still show up. That's real love.
And if you walk away just because it gets hard, you'll never know how beautiful it could ve been when you chose to stay and build something stronger.
Two weeks after our wedding, my mother in law finally came to visit since she had missed the ceremony due to a flight issue. It was my first time meeting her, but we instantly got along.
One day, while we were in her room, my husband walked in looking irritated and asked where the laundry I had done was. He was specifically looking for a shirt I had washed. I excused myself to find it for him, but when I came back, my mother in law questioned me.
“Why do you let him talk to you like that?” she asked, clearly surprised. “You already did his laundry, and he still can’t find his own clothes? What does he think you are, his maid?”
She pulled me closer and added, “Listen, don’t let him treat you like a house girl. Since I got married, I’ve never done your father in law’s laundry, he actually does mine. That’s how I raised him to be. If he can’t even appreciate your effort enough to look for his own clothes, then let him wash and fold them himself.”
That was the last time I ever did his laundry in that house and now he’s the one doing mine.
Good mothers in law really do exist.
Missing someone but choosing not to message them is a different kind of pain. You stare at your phone, thinking about what you want to say, but you stop yourself because you know you shouldn’t.