Find someone that appreciates your efforts. Not just towards them, but the effort towards your job, your friends, your family and just all aspects of your life that you try for.
Born with a penis? You’re a male.
Born with a vagina? You’re a female.
If you have a penis I will refer to you as an male, if you have a vagina I will refer to you as a female. Don’t care if it offends you. It’s biology.