what is the solution to just being too avoidant to ever do any of the things that would improve your life materially. it doesn’t even feel like depression it feels like there’s a brick wall
zero confidence, zero friends, zero social skills, terrible communication skills, a bad childhood, poor mental health, a toxic family and health issues. what am I even supposed to do in this world???
STOP BLAMING YOURSELF FOR NOTHING
All your problems are fake. Everything happens for a reason. You’re at the right place at the right time. Live in the present moment. The now is the only thing that exists. Don’t rush. Reconsider your priorities. Use your energy wisely. Things will change tremendously. Enjoy the sunrise.
You hear everywhere about how people achieved great things at your age, and everyone automatically starts subconsciously comparing themselves. That makes you anxious, depressed, and hopeless.
The first mistake everyone makes is putting themselves into comparison, which is irrational in the first place.
Nobody is like you. There never was a person like you, and never will be. Your DNA is the code that belongs only to you. No one can replicate that. NEVER.
Even if you associate yourself with a certain skin color, nationality, or age group, it’s still nothing compared to the soul that you are.
Now do you realize how pointless it is to compare yourself with other people?
But if comparison is the only way that will make you sleep better, here are some examples of people who made it, even when they were considered late:
romanticize your life, take pretty pictures, feel like the main character, light up a candle, read books, go for a walk, dance to your favorite music, buy yourself presents, do whatever you want, be happy - this is your life, don't let anyone take it from you