Nim Ajji

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I've finally shot a video of my birth story, along with some helpful tips for a healthy pregnancy.

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Hi.

You probably won't see my tweet

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My son's dream: To drive a fire engine.

My dream: To see the bottom of the laundry basket.

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Oh, is that why I'm paying Michelin Star restaurant prices for groceries, too?
I guess supermarkets count as restaurants now!

[DutchNews.NL @DutchNewsNL]

The Netherlands now has 103 one-star Michelin restaurants https://t.co/HXI3qkNSRm

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My son's only question since I taught him the difference between food and treats.

"Where is my treat?"

🙈🙈 choose what you say to your kids.

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Same place. Same city. Same activity. 11 years apart and a camera that can finally show my eyes as eyes and not sockets.

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A very sweet 85 year old lady who only speaks Dutch understood me perfectly, and we had a lovely conversation.

I don't need any more validation about my Dutch. 😇😇

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@Dhichkyaaon Absolutely.

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Them: What's your full-time job?

Me:
1. A job to pay my bills.
2. Parenting
3. TEACHING THE FAMILY ABOUT BOUNDARIES.

I have 3 full-time jobs!

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My son got super angry at me today because I repeated what he said in the form of a question. His reaction:

"Stop repeating what I'm saying! Stop repeating. "
Dealing with a three-teen year old is hard, people.

[Moye Moye @areyareydotcom]

The is lit! 🔥

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Chai. Paint. Music.

So happy right now.

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And if there was a tall man, he would ask if he had a big penis.

Needless to say, I felt shy saying yes sometimes. 😄

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Took son out for dinner, and he now knows the main reproductive parts of males and females.

He spent the first 30 mins asking if every man in the restaurant had a penis by pointing to them and asking, "Amma, he is a man. Does he have a penis?"

Had to apologise many times!

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Me to my doctor this morning:
"I'm in incredible pain, and it's already been 3 weeks."

Dutch doctor: " Have patience and take paracetamol."

🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

[🌓Natasha @NutAshes]

Things I wish would get normalized in my lifetime:
1. Choosing to stay single
2. Divorce
3. Marrying in your 40s/ 50s
4. Widowed parents in their 60s getting married again
5. Bringing up queer kids
6. Loving and leaving because it stops making sense

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Hallelujah! Don't want to be servants of patriarchy in 2023, too!

[DutchNews.NL @DutchNewsNL]

New law allows babies to be given both parents’ surnames https://t.co/qECBrHDeGw

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Spend thousands on unnecessary taxes and when I get a free bus ride because the system doesn't work.... Saved a full €1.70 today!

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Nothing comes close to home food. ❤️

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I'm really not happy with the inflation that keeps raising. I'm sure 17M citizens will agree with me.

[DutchNews.NL @DutchNewsNL]

Dutch are high in Happiness Index and have a low ‘happiness gap’ https://t.co/atm2E0ET94