You're not alone. Many people struggle silently with this, and it’s brave of you to ask for help. The fact that you're trying to stop means you've already taken the first and hardest step: self-awareness.
Here’s a long, honest breakdown that may help:
1. Understand the Cycle
Masturbation often becomes a coping mechanism, not just for lust, but for boredom, loneliness, stress, or emotional escape. You need to identify your triggers.
Ask yourself: When does it happen? What am I feeling before and after?
2. Avoid Triggers
Avoid content, images, videos, or social media accounts that spark the urge.
This includes some music, memes, or even late-night scrolling.
Set app limits. Use tools like website blockers or screen time settings.
3. Stay Occupied
An idle mind is temptation’s playground.
Start working out (even just pushups), reading, writing, or learning a skill.
Bashir, even learning video editing, running your YouTube, or reading religious books helps refocus your energy.
4. Fight in Layers, Not Just Willpower
Willpower is important, but environment matters more.
Change your surroundings. Sleep earlier. Avoid being alone in private for too long.
Sometimes, just being around people or in public kills the urge.
5. Forgive Yourself When You Slip
Relapse isn’t failure, it’s feedback.
Don’t give up when you mess up. Keep track of your progress and aim to go longer each time.
Even 3 days is better than 0. Then aim for 7, then 14.
6. Spiritual Strength Helps
Pray. Fast. Talk to God.
In Islam or Christianity, both teach that the body is a trust, and self-control is part of faith.
Ask for strength, and believe that it will come.
7. Replace the Habit With Purpose
The ultimate key is to replace, not just resist.
Build a mission: maybe it’s your business, your brand, your body, or your mind.
Start seeing yourself as someone who’s bigger than urges.
You are not your addiction.
You are a fighter in a daily battle, and with time, that battle becomes easier to win.
One day you’ll look back and be proud that you fought, even when it was hard.
💪🏽 Keep going. You're not alone.
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I congratulated them and reminded the Caucus that since the inception of the NRM, we have rejected bad politics. When choosing leaders, we must first ask what needs to be done for the people before asking who should do it. Politics must reject identity, religion, tribalism and gender chauvinism, and instead focus on solving people’s problems. Our priority remains wealth creation and social- economic transformation through productive engagement in agriculture, services, artisanship and ICT.