We shouldn't teach kids that being naughty or nice determines the gifts you receive in life. Be nice for the sake of being a decent human. Or, be a fucking dick because sometimes people deserve it. And, if you want cool presents, buy your own shit.
A fact is information minus emotion. An opinion is information plus experience. Ignorance is an opinion lacking information. And, stupidity is an opinion that ignores a fact.
"Making the first move" applies to more than dating. You can't always wait for others to offer — ask for that promotion, speak up if you have a question, stand in the right place to get the bartender's attention — get the money, answers, and buzz you fucking desire and deserve.