Just saw Phyna’s videos about Sheggz and Bella and the whole abuse allegations etc and I just shrugged in pity for them both.
During the level up season, I predicted that this would happen. I saw it right from the first week and spoke about the toxicity between both parties and how they would burn each other with their flame if their temperament if they stayed together. I pointed out all the hints and displays of provocation as well as aggression on both sides; the manipulation, the love bombing, the cheap blackmails, the promise of a future with a trip to the famous SANTORINI and so much more but what did I get?
I got a massive backlash. I was dragged, demonized, villainized, called an old loveless, lonely, hateful and spiteful woman. I was even threatened with death and curses from their fanatics. I was labelled a hater of good things and trolled everytime they posted a new photo online as proof of “we’re still together”.
What did Bella do?
She went on interviews and defended Sheggz like her life depended on it despite receipts from his Ex. Gbemi, who had had a similar experience with him. She gave a massive “fuck you” to the world and they both spent 4 years trying to “pepper” their enemies online, flaunting their apparently aesthetically pleasing “Hell” of a relationship to the world just to prove the “haters” wrong. But what’s the story today? I turned out to be right, everyone else who saw what I saw then, turns out to be right.
The saddest part is reading all the exposed chats online and seeing the complicity of both families in their madness. The long wait for a ring that never came and the shameful coverup of a toxic relationship just to prove a point; left me speechless.
My take is, Bella would have still stayed despite all of the alleged abuse if she had gotten her desire met; the ring, the status of wife to Sheggz. I believe the delay left her exhausted. For Sheggz, I knew that as a typical conventional Nigerian man even though he lived abroad, Bella’s sharp mouth is one aspect of her personality he’ll struggle with. They both did each other dirty as they were each other’s enablers in the Big brother’s house and in their own little world outside the house.
Do I feel sorry for them; well, I shouldn’t but I kinda do cos we can’t dispute the fact that they had something. I won’t call it love but whatever it was fed their delusion till this point. They allowed the noise from their so called shippers to also enable them. The gifts, the encouragements, the brand deals they enjoyed because of their ship was another coping mechanism for all the madness they meted out to each other. However, the reality of life is, it surely gets to a point …
I’m not one to kick another when they’re already down so all I’ll wish for them is healing but the healing go long cos in cases like these, “had I known” becomes a comfortable companion and regret, an everlasting reminder of how foolish love/lust made you reduce your worth to prove a point.
I wish them well.
#bbnaija
@Fswglory She has no right to call her mother,she should face BELLS and leave the Family out of her dirty and irritating mouth that is long .LEAVE FAMILY OUT OF YOUR INSULTS
@BBNaija@danomilkng Nothing should make you mention someone mother….that is the highest of disrespect and it so crazy ….You can face the person,insult and call her names,but don’t mention the Family.