Marry a man who CAN’T WAIT to talk to you, spend time with you, get to know you, and fall in love with you. Please stop settling for halfhearted, hesitant, and confusing relationships. It’s so much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you FEEL alone!!
Arabic has 14 words for love. Each one describes a different stage. And here's what got me. Each one comes from a root that has nothing to do with love. Until you see the connection. And then you can't unsee it.
All 14. Let me walk you through them.
Being asked a really good question feels phenomenal. The type of question that leads to a thoughtful conversation where I almost have to collect my thoughts before diving into it. That scratches my brain so goood. It makes me feel so known and desired
A famous sex therapist explained the difference between making love and f#cking.
Women crave both at different moments.
Bedroom kings know when to give each.
Here’s how....
an eldest daughter once said being the firstborn means you’re automatically irritated by incompetence. not because you’re harsh, but because you were never given the room to be incompetent yourself. the daughters who know… know.
Again, to be seen is to be loved.
If they refuse to acknowledge you in the moments that mean the most to you, they chose their ego over loving you.
Note that & juncture!
Emotionally unavailable men will ruin you.
And I'm not saying that lightly. I'm saying it from a place of watching too many women with big hearts and soft souls break themselves trying to love men who simply can't love them back.
Stay away from men who think emotional connection is optional, who call you "too sensitive.
who make you feel like you're asking for too much simply because you want love that feels present intentional, and real. Because the truth is, no matter how loving, loyal, or patient you are you cannot pour into a man who's emotionally empty. it's about him. His fears.
His refusal to do the inner work.
You deserve someone who's available
Your softness, your empathy, they deserve a home in a man who's ready to receive, nurture and retur them. Don't waste your heart on a man who's numla to love.
Save your heart for someone who doesn't just want it but knows how to hold it.
Givers need givers so they know how it feels to truly have a cup running over.
Takers need takers so they know how it feels to be depleted & still looked at like you owe more.