I loved Ebukaโs final words:
โThis is like the 10th reunion Iโm hosting, and this is the one with the least amount of apologies. Not to say that means anything. Maybe some of you are cool, so maybe we didnโt need that many apologies. But it also feels like we went through conversations and things dipped.
While I understand that some of you come here wanting to win letโs be honest with ourselves you want them to say, โMy girl, she finished themโโ (Ebuka is chronically online ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ)
โA lot of that is playing in your heads, and we know that not all friendships are worth it and not all beefs are that deep. But I have always said this for the last decade: Iโm not pushing for anybody to be friends, but I think a lot of you can be cordial.
It feels like being cordial is seen as weakness. Being the person who says, โAre we okay?โ becomes a talking point. Ah, they must know itโs you that came to me.
For people who lived together for so long, how does it get to the point where even a โhiโ means, โI wonโ? Not everything has to be a competition about who is winning and who is not.
If you felt some way about somebody in the house and Iโm not talking about relationships, Iโm talking about one week, two weeks, three weeks how do you dislike that person so much now?
Everybody here talked about everybody. Nobody is exclusively innocent in some way. Maybe the degrees vary, but conversations were had.
So when you come out and say, โI saw clipsโ, you said yours
We were in the house, we were gisting. Sometimes gist can be misinterpreted as something else.
Some of you come out to fanbases, and the fact that you feel like you have a backing makes things shift.
In a nutshell, what Iโm saying is: this is done. Life is going to go on. Some of the most successful people, businesses, and marriages come from collaboration. You cannot run away from it.
You have to learn to deal with situations without feeling the need to one up the other person or feeling like the other person is trying to take advantage of you.โ
Honestly, one of the best reunion closing speeches he has given.
https://t.co/p5ky8V7PCv
Psalm 19 KJV:
The heavens declare the glory of God;
And the firmament sheweth his handywork.
Day unto day uttereth speech,
And night unto night sheweth knowledge.
There is no speech nor language,
Where their voice is not heard.
Their line is gone out through all the earth,
And their words to the end of the world.
In them hath he set a tabernacle for the sun,
Which is as a bridegroom coming out of his chamber,
And rejoiceth as a strong man to run a race.
His going forth is from the end of the heaven,
And his circuit unto the ends of it:
And there is nothing hid from the heat thereof.
The law of the LORD is perfect, converting the soul:
The testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple.
The statutes of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart:
The commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes.
The fear of the LORD is clean, enduring for ever:
The judgments of the LORD are true and righteous altogether.
More to be desired are they than gold, yea, than much fine gold:
Sweeter also than honey and the honeycomb.
Moreover by them is thy servant warned:
And in keeping of them there is great reward.
Who can understand his errors?
Cleanse thou me from secret faults.
Keep back thy servant also from presumptuous sins;
Let them not have dominion over me:
Then shall I be upright,
And I shall be innocent from the great transgression.
Let the words of my mouth,
And the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight,
O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.
Fell in love with this quote: ๐
โNo matter your age, youโll always wish you started younger.
But today is the youngest youโll ever be. So start today.โ