Young men,
Get married.
Have kids.
Ignore the people trying to convince you that commitment is a burden.
The greatest joys in my life arenโt my business, my investments, or my accomplishments.
Thereโs nothing more fulfilling than building a family.
One day youโll realize the things the world told you would limit your freedom became the source of your greatest purpose.
Lil Wayne in his 40s got engaged to a woman in her 20s
And as expected the old women are angry, they have already started using their favorite buzzword "ped0phile"
Yes according to feminists, any man who looks to commit to a woman in her 20s is evil, because he is taking away the young woman's freedom
Freedom to be promiscuous
But to the men it should be a reminder that, once you have built yourself up, you will always be in your prime
Lesson: Women will always be attracted to a high value man
One of the best things you can do for yourself in adulthood, is to learn how to leave things alone.
Just leave it alone. Situations, people, whatever it is, leave it alone.
True intelligence comes from 3 core abilities: solving problems with clarity, adjusting with grace in any situation and making decisions that are thoughtful.
When these qualities grow, so does your inner strength. Nurture them a little every day and watch the shift within you.
I asked several divorced men that I work with:
"When did you realise a woman is for keeps?"
This this is what they said,
-If a woman calls you baby, darling, babu, love, it means nothing.
-If a woman gets intimate with you, it means nothing.
-If a woman marries you, it means nothing.
-If a woman becomes the mother of your child, it means nothing.
-If she is doing things for you, it means nothing.
-If she disconnects from all the social media platforms for you, it means nothing.
If she respects you when life gets hard, if she stands beside you when things are heavy and ready to build a world with you, then she means everything.
-If a woman calls you baby, darling, babu, love, it means nothing.
-If a woman gets intimate with you, it means nothing.
-If a woman marries you, it means nothing.
-If a woman becomes the mother of your child, it means nothing.
-If she is doing things for you, it means nothing.
-If she disconnects from all the social media platforms for you, it means nothing.
If she respects you when life gets hard, if she stands beside you when things are heavy and ready to build a world with you, then she means everything.
-A woman calling you baby, darling, babu, love... That means nothing.
-A woman getting intimate with you...That means nothing.
- A woman marrying you...That means nothing.
-A woman becoming the mother of your child...That means nothing.
-A woman doing things for you...That means nothing.
-A woman disconnecting from all the social media platforms for you... That means nothing.
Find a woman willing to respect you, stand by your side and pray for you instead of quitting when things get tough.
I know Iโm not the only one who notices the quiet grief we Africans carry. For delayed exposure, slow systems, almost zero safety nets, starting adulthood already tired and having dreams literally cut short by bad governance.
No single day goes by on this app without reading it.
The reason Mara Moja works so well is cause it has something most other pain relievers don't.
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Unrelated: indimanje hupita hapo mbele ya inspection center