Dating a man that is 30 years and above? Here are things you might not understand but....
1. He's allergic to unnecessary stress.
At that age, his patience for drama is zero. Even small chaos drains him.
He wants a woman who calms him, not one he has to survive.
2. He moves slower because he's thinking long term.
He's not scared of commitment. He's scared of committing to the wrong woman. That caution is not lack of interest... it's maturity.
3. His career pressure is real.
At this age, a man is fighting silent battles: finances, stability,
responsibilities. So if he's ne texting 24/7, it's not neglect... it's life.
5. Consistency is his love language. He's not
impressed by a woman who is sweet today and confusing tomorrow. He needs steady energy.
6. Disrespect switches him off instantly.
You might think it's a small statement or
attitude, but to him, it's a sign of the future. Respect is currency for a grown man.
7. His appreciation meter is sensitive.
If he feels like you only notice what he didn't do, he'll stop doing anything at all. Men that age shut down wher they feel unappreciated.
8. He listens more to actions than words.
At 30+, men have met talkers, manipulators and performers. What you do wi matter more.
9. He already knows what he doesn't want.
He won't force a vibe, tolerate immaturity, or entertain emotional games One wrong pattern, and he' ll quietly move on.
10. He loves in a steady way.
Not loud. Not chaotic.
Not childish. He'll show up for you, protect you, guide you, invest in you.
But if you want drama over stability, you'll miss the beauty of a grown man's love.
11. He's not trying to impress the streets.
He's over showing off. He wants a woman who brings calm, loyalty, and partnership, not external validation.
Date women who genuinely want a relationship, want to be loved, want to give love, want a man. Not because they’re hungry, but because they love love, they understand what companionship means, and you’ll enjoy the relationship.
Never underestimate what God can do overnight. One day you’re crying yourself to sleep wondering how you’re going to make it, then doors start opening that nobody could’ve opened but Him. God doesn’t need months to change your situation. One blessing can change your entire life. Keep believing even when you can’t see it yet.
God, can I be honest with You?
I don’t understand, I honestly don’t understand why some things are taking this long. I don’t understand why You’ve allowed certain things to happen. I don’t understand what You’re preparing me for.
Sometimes I’m tired of being strong.
Sometimes I’m tired of crying too much.
Sometimes I just want to know that everything will be okay.
Sometimes, I don’t even know if I’m praying for the right things anymore.
But in all, I know You’re still God
I know You haven’t forgotten me.
And even though I don’t understand this season, i don’t want to go through it without You.
I’m scared, but I’m here, Father. Please hold me together.
As a man, understand that not every woman you try to woo will like you back. Accept that reality and know peace. Learn to recognize when the interest isn’t mutual, bow out gracefully, and move on. Don’t hang around wasting your damn time trying to force what simply isn’t there.
I’ll tell you a very harsh lesson I’ve had to learn through painful experience.
If a person don’t like you, there’s ABSOLUTELY nothing in this world you can do to change that.
Twerking for the approval of people who hate your very existence is a fool’s game. Best case scenario, you end up what they call a “useful idiot.”
There’s no way you’re going to overcome lust if you keep listening to music filled with lustful content. You can’t overcome what you continually entertain. Attack the source, and that’s when you begin to walk in victory.
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Sin destroys our prayer life more than anything else.
Sin leads to prayerlessness and prayerlessness leads to sin.
A sinning man would stop praying and a praying man would stop sinning.