I'm in love with this quote
"if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior"
I remember I took this girlโs man because I loved the way he treated her. He bought her a house and a car, wine and dined her, raised all three of her kids and didnโt even have any of his own. She didnโt have to work and he was very successful. I used to follow everything they posted wishing it was me. So I said let me shoot my shot, the worst he can say is no. I hopped in his DMs and surprisingly he gave me some play. After about three months of talking, I thought I had hit the jackpot and secured a good man who was going to take care of me. Whole time when I finally got him,
Imagine losing access to my laugh, my weird questions, my uplifting reminders, the way I see life, the depth of my conversations, my spark and most of all, my love and presence.