Down to earth gentlemen. Life is very clear to me, not confusing at all. I say less but think deep. All views expressed here are solely my personal views.
@ArcSadam There is nothing wrong with being surrogate for her elder brother in law. But the family has no right to force her to accept that proposal against her will.
@marriedmn I didn't hear him say she wants to be taken back, there is a reason she left him in the first place. Family and friends will always have things to say. Just leave the poor women alone, her children will take care of her once they are old enough. You are indirectly helping her.