ppl w adhd do shit like procrastinate for 3 months straight & then in one 24-hr day knock out 3 months of tasks. you either know this life or you don’t lol.
I realized people only like you when you're easy to benefit from. When you say yes, stay quiet, and let things slide, they love you. But once you start saying no, setting boundaries, and standing on what's right for you, evervthing changes.
Suddenly you got an attitude. Suddenly, you're the problem. Truth is, they never respected you, they just liked your silence. I'm not being difficult, I'm being real. If me protecting my peace offends you, that's your issue, not mine.
When someone does something for me, I immediately start thinking of ways I can thank them in return. I deeply appreciate consideration and acts of service.
If someone has an issue with you but tells everyone except you, it’s not a problem. It’s a performance. They don’t want resolution, they want attention. People who want peace speak directly. People who want validation speak loudly to the crowd.
Apologize when you're wrong. You're too young to be losing genuine people because of pride. Stop thinking everyone is replaceable and stop searching for quotes to defend your stupidity.
Facing your own mess is heavy. Coming to terms with the choices YOU made, the times YOU didn’t protect yourself, the moments you crossed your own boundaries. That point where you realize everybody can’t take the blame and you had a hand in what fell apart too. Sitting with that truth hurts, but learning how to forgive yourself hurts even more. Growth doesn’t move in a straight line. Days like this are part of it. Feel it, acknowledge it, but don’t get stuck living there.