the sin of fujoshi is being too anti-criticism and the sin of himejoshi is being way too critical.
is not great to go "there is no bigoted bias in Yaoi/fanspaces" but it's also bad to go "all Yaoi is inherently misogynistic, if you a hime who doesn't hate yaoi u fujobird"
why do you all act like the patriarchy is some mysterious omnipresent force that equally affects men and women? it’s MEN who benefit and largely uphold the patriarchy. you can’t be a victim of a system created to place you on top.