“sebelum belajar how to be a good parent, learn how to be a good spouse first” AGREE ANJGGG WHAT’S THE POINT OF BEING A GOOD FATHER IF YOU’RE A SHITTY HUSBAND
male-centered women love projecting. when you do everything for male attention and validation, you assume that’s the case for everyone. when in fact… wdgaf
Kl cewek juga berkali kali lipat lagi layernya:
“Dia paham consent gak ya? What about their view on marital rape? On reproductive control? What’s their view on feminism? Apakah mereka consume media/contents by influencer2 ngabers? Do they laugh on sexual/sexist jokes?” AND SO ON
this is why knowing ur partner's love language is important, so you can "loving ur partner in a way they can feel loved".
yang kamu kasih adalah yang dia mau, jadi gak ada debat "loh tp aku udah effort bgt?!?!" tp sananya ttp ga ngerasa disayang.
everytime someone grieves, the first thing i wish for them is a space wide enough to let that grief sit by their side. may you have a long conversation with it, long enough to remind you that the heart you use to love is the same heart that is trained to keep you alive.
I hate men, but I don't hate MY man 😘
Serious answer, if a woman that hates men doesn't hate a man that means that man doesn't exhibit the toxic qualities most men have
Remember ladies, high standards protect you from low quality experiences 😘
guys, please nangis aja. crying is not a sign of weakness. ever the Prophet Muhammad shallallahu alaihi wasallam used to cry often when he remembered his ummah and when he was in prostration to Allah.
crying is one way to release emotions, so it’s okay. at the end, we’re just human.