a customer couldn't decide between two desserts and her boyfriend said “just get both, it’s your day” and I was like "omg is it your birthday??’ and she said” no, he says that every day”
NEVER get mad at your partner for expressing what UPSETS them. even if it seems small to you, it may be SERIOUS to them. genuine CONSIDERATION is very key
It’s not urgency you should be measuring. It’s clarity. See, it’s not about how quickly he moves… it’s about how certain he is while he moves. Let me explain..
i saw a girl on tiktok who said “accountability is so important to me. nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match” felt this to the core.
a girl on tiktok said “if you wanted me to speak more highly of you then perhaps you should have treated me better...you don't get to narrate MY story of MY experiences with you". felt that.
this girl on tik tok said if God puts me in your life it’s to love & heal you because God knows that’s all I know how to do with good intentions & never half love you. i felt that wholeheartedly.
I think i owe myself an apology for being in spaces where i knew l wasn't wanted & appreciated but instead i stayed, for forcing broken connections & ships. I owe myself an apology for putting people who never appreciated me before myself, doubting myself.