Stop being so considerate in situations where you aren't even considered. It’s okay to be nice. But if you’re sacrificing your own needs and wants to make someone else happy - you’re sliding into “too nice” territory. This will only lead to resentment and frustration.
in nosferatu one man says to willem dafoe, “but she will rave throughout the night!” and he responds “then she must rave!” and i immediately knew some dj is gonna put that clip in their set
It shouldn't be this way but 9/10 if you hold a man down through his lowest period, he's gonna punish you for that with betrayal or abandonment. I dunno why and tbh it's not worth figuring out the why, just listen to your elders and don't do that shit