Sex work has made me realize how you settle for the bare minimum just because he makes you cum, you can have the hottest guy with the biggest dick in front of you and have a 6/10 sex, it’s not about dicks or just penetration, it’s about chemistry, look into each other eyes, listen to the way he breaths, feel how penetrates slowly, hold him against you and make him feel this deeper connection (top or bottom). Feel safe, feel comfortable.
I just don’t chose random fucks over quality anymore, even tho I carry myself here like I be fucking back to back with anyone, there’s nothing I would change about intimacy.