Girl to girl: study the patterns in your family. Look at what distracted, delayed, or derailed the women before you, then make intentional decisions to break those cycles.
refuse to be a victim of generational curses ❤️
Just found out that the designer and creative director of JMakxParis, Alvin JMak got into a partnership through an organisation that helps victims of the conflict in Congo and those victims helped create the uniforms 🥹
The same parents who travel long distances to help/ grieve/ celebrate their friends?
The ones greeting almost everyone from church to the market? They model alot about community and friendship. Alot of us think we're too good for mundane things.
Let's be serious please.
Not to defend HR but in some of these shady organisations, the HR function is just there for recruitment and payroll services purposes only. No real strategic contribution to the organisation. They’re as powerless as those mistreated employees.
@baddaysareover You're going to judge me but till this day I don't know how old my father is so I just say a random number when asked 😭😭 And yes he has refused to tell us all including my mom.
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If you’re an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don’t make everything a matter of life and death.
sorry to break it to you but you literally have to face your fears and slaughter them. otherwise you will live a small life that you do not want. you literally have to view your biggest fears and attack them head on. you have to fall into the abyss to find your way out. the easy path does not exist. there is no get out of jail free card. you have to allow yourself to die a spiritual death over and over again in order to reinvent yourself into the person you are actually supposed to be. and you have to be painfully honest with yourself and the people around you. it’s horrible but it’s truly the only way.