Victoria Dougherty

Evangelist for new stories and old souls.

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Every day, I feel like a passenger on this ship.

[Humanoid History @HumanoidHistory]

Flying into the atmosphere of Jupiter, illustrated by Ron Miller.

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The Bible as a grimoire…(see comments for link)

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A Woman With a Signature Scent. See link in comments.

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One of the things I tell people over and over- the stories in romance novels are real. Whenever I wrote about love on my blog, people would write to me about their love stories and they were better than fairytales, better than romances. And they were real. Love is great.

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Reporter: “Your wife’s sick. You gonna find a girlfriend?” Jay Leno: blinks “I got one. Her name’s Mavis. We’ve been married 45 years.”
Most people saw “Jay Leno’s wife.”
Wrong.

Mavis Leno was a force. Feminist Majority Foundation. Fought for Afghan women under the Taliban when no one was watching. “So fierce they nominated her for a Nobel Peace Prize in 2002,” a colleague said.
Independent. Loud. Brilliant.
1976: Meets Jay. 1980: Marries him.
He did comedy. She did justice. They did life.

Then dementia walked in.
January 2024: Doctors confirm it. Advanced. Memory, judgment, gone.
April 2024: Jay files conservatorship. Headlines scream. Home gets quiet.

Restaurants? Over.
Travel? Done.
Debates about politics? Gone.

“Dementia doesn’t steal memories,” Jay said. “It steals today.”

The cruelest part?
For 3 years, Mavis wakes up believing her mom just died.
New grief. Every morning. Fresh tears. “She wasn’t remembering,” Jay said. “She was hearing it for the first time. Every. Single. Day.”
And every morning, he sits with her. Holds her. “I’m here,” he whispers.
Next day? Repeat.

“That was the toughest,” he said. “Watching her lose her mom 1,000 times.”

His life now:
No tours. No late shows. Home by dinner. Every night.
He cooks. They watch animal shows. YouTube travel docs. “We can’t go,” he says. “But we can still see.”

Hallway walk? She needs help.
He picks her up. Sways. Slow dance.
“Jay and Mavis at the prom,” he calls it.
She laughs. Every time. “She thinks it’s funny,” he says. “So I do it. Every day.”

What’s left?
She still knows him.
Walks in the room. She smiles. “I love you.”
“I melt,” Jay says. “Every time.”

“For better or worse,” they said in 1980.
“Nobody thinks the ‘worse’ shows up,” Jay said. “It did.”

Mavis can’t march anymore. But she still growls at the news when she sees injustice. “She’s still in there,” Jay says. “The fighter.”

And he’s still here.
Not for cameras. Not for applause.
“I made a promise,” he said. “45 years ago. Still keeping it.”

“Even the worse,” Jay says, “isn’t that bad. Not with her.”

Millions do this. No interviews. No headlines.
Spouses. Kids. Siblings. Hallways turned into dance floors.
“Love isn’t a feeling,” a caregiver told me. “It’s showing up. Again. And again.”

Jay Leno made the world laugh.
Mavis made the world better.
Dementia tried to take that.

It failed.
Because she still says “I love you.”
Because he still calls it prom.
Because “I already have one. I’m married.”

That’s not a Hollywood ending.
That’s a vow.
Kept.
Every. Single. Morning.

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I'm a midwesterner, so of course I favor Bob Seger.

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Bob Seger is better than Bruce Springsteen. I don’t know how many of you are joining me on this island but I feel like it will be 50% geniuses and 50% guys who make women instinctively lock their car doors.

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The Beauty of Rotting Fruit: On Writing Body Horror: It started when I was in first grade, and watched a girl peel off a big scab on her knee and eat it. I kept staring. She kept staring back. And she kept on chewing. https://t.co/PSu50Wej5D

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American High School rocks

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A New Jersey high school put on an ALIEN: THE PLAY production and even built a xenomorph suit that would lurk around the audience. The best part is Sigourney Weaver herself showed up to check out the production 🔥 so cool

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For glorious gothic stories, see link below!

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@AstroVicGlover @NASA @csa_asc Go Team Human! Thank you!

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Gothic anyone? See link for Gothic novels below.

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