Yall say this and then yall break up and suddenly he was an evil manipulative DL narcissist who hates women. But he was good and harmless when the women around you were uncomfortable✌🏾
Your heart is not a state secret. You are meant to declare allegiances. You are meant to have favourites. Write the letter. Miss the train. Stay up until dawn talking. You should be caught red-handed loving something, someone.